soh-sial!
(Thursday, December 30, 2010/11:05 AM)
"We assume "that men and women marry because they are in love. There is a broadly based popular mythology about the character of love as a violent, irresistible emotion that strikes where it will, a mystery that is the goal of most young people …
As soon as one investigates, however, which people actually marry each other, one finds that the lightning-shaft of Cupid seems to be guided rather strongly within very definite channels of class, income, education, racial and religious background. If one then investigates a little further into the behaviour that that is engaged in prior to marriage …., one finds channels of interaction that are o
often rigid to the point of ritual. The suspicion begins to dawn on one that, most of the time, it is not so much the emotion of love that creates a certain kind of relationship, but that carefully predefined and often planned relationships eventually generate the desired emotion. In other words, when certain conditions are met or have been constructed, one allows oneself ‘to fall in love’."
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cobalah kau coba...
(Monday, December 06, 2010/4:20 PM)
"...Siapa Sebenarnya aku padamu
Mungkin sama dengan teman lain
Yang bisa kau buat begitu
Dan bila Tiada lagi teman bermain
Kau pulang mendapatkan aku
Itulah aku padamu.."
"...Pernahkah kau ada
Bila ku perlu
Tuk menyatakan rasa sakit
Dalam diri.."
Thank you Faizal Tahir. for the lyrics and song.. and for bringing out your feelings in that song.. if it was.. and for saying out what that was in my heart all this while..
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