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lurve vs infatuation

(Saturday, September 22, 2007/8:32 PM)

salaam all.

i feel that i need to write about this cos somewhere around my life, there seems some uncertain pre-assumptions of feelings of the heart.

true or not. only people who're feeling it will have it justified.

you know when we start crawling to know ourselves in lurve, we often put a lil hope on 'feelings' developed amongst peers of the other gender.

its not easy to forsake that feeling, cos i believe its au naturale.

not everyone can stay true to platonic friendships. even so, some will fall in love with their own very best of male buddies.

trust me, i've been through it.. i fell for my own best male buddy once. and it was truly kaychoh-rable.

you see.. it works like this..

wen you spend a lil bit too much time with male buddies be it over a cuppa or a movie or two.. over late night conversations and a millionth of texts and so.. there are bound to be feelings.

i dunno if i could eva categorise it as love.. but i would play it even safer to call it infatuation.. or more appropriately called as 'a-step-to-realise-that-you're-human-after-all'...

suddenly you have the hots for one person that ought to be a friend. more like a bro to you..

oh oh.. trouble's brewing hunny. cabuttttttttts!

you see lurve. when soon you realise that you're feeling that way, pls.. i beg you.. re-evaluate all instances and reasons why you're around each other in the first place. perhaps he just treats you like a sista that he's never had..

so if you have the signs and symptoms that he's fearing to have a more 'physical' relationship with you.. that should be a bigger sign that he's telling you to move away politely, without wanting to hurt your feelings.. in one way or any other..

or perhaps that he's openly checking out the chicks in front of you.. and all around you.. thats the final sign that he's NOT and never interested in you lurve. his roving heart ought to be set free from your prying heart and mind..

sometimes we mistook plain pure friendly gestures to something of our wishful thinking that things would develop romantically.. sometimes things JUST WONT HAPPEN hunny..

there's chemistry overload for friendship.. aint blasting for any relationship!

and so there's no need to gain any unnecessary attention on and around him. cos he wont care.. or perhaps its a lil too much overdone up..

there's prolly not even a chance to even find out what 'fine lines' of similarities that you both share... likes or dislikes alike.. nothing. nothing moves him an inch from having any romantic inclinations on you..

my most humble opinion on this issue.. mind you.. would have to be :-

1) rethink of your actions and emotions alike
2) move back to treating him like a buddy before you even lose that friendship
3) steer away from having those kinda 'lurvey dovey' thingie for him
4) flush out all sort of possibilities that love will ensue
5) recheck ya past moves and be careful of ya future ones

i sure do hope that things get back to normal insyaALLAH.

pull up ya socks lurve, and you'll make it!!

you're more compared to a lovelorn sick chick...

and so. you should know the deal.

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distance and loyalty

(Tuesday, September 04, 2007/10:53 PM)

sometimes when we lurve someone so much..
distance teaches us to be loyal..

i would certainly hate the distance..
but i would really lurve to learn the meaning of loyalty..

i wrote that when i thought things out.

sorry mr lurved one..
i'm sorry if i was being a bonafide arse..

i wanted you to accompany me without even thinking of ya challenges @ work.
i wanted you around even when you had to complete your daily tasks and all.

yeah, i know. i'm sucha demanding one.

i'll learn.

i'll learn that doesnt mean you dun call or text.. it totally doesnt mean that you dun think of me.

i know you take a few seconds in ya busy schedule to say.. you care.

i appreciate it. i really do..

O Allah, please give us your blessings. and especially me. i need all those patience.. and pls erase all my incessant doubts in life..

i'm sorry dude if i've hurt you..

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