i kinda chanced on this question on someone's friendster's account tagline..
(disclaimer : on whichever i wrote here is purely my humblest thoughts and feelings.. its a take on what i feel currently or how i wanna think on current topics that friends pose.. or even wat they go thru in life... so takmo terasa2 arrh ekkhs. it might or might not be for you.. take a chill pill people.. but people who are closest to me.. they would know who or wat i think or feel.. and they should understand.. in any of these which hurts.. is for them to stand up, brush the dirt and move on.. a better person in life.. insyaALLAH)
Dictionary..
love
(noun)1) a deep and tender feeling of affection for or attachment or devotion to a person or persons
2) a feeling of brotherhood and good will toward other people
3) a strong, usually passionate, affection of one person for another, based in part on sexual attraction
4) the person who is the object of such an affection; sweetheart; lover
exclusive
(adjective)1) excluding or tending to exclude all others; shutting out other considerations, happenings, existences
2) excluding all but what is specified
3) given or belonging to no other; not shared or divided; sole
so love should be exclusive aint it.. as the meaning of it reflects.
so now question would be.. how do we define wat we wanna love?
do we go
menyondol ajer.. or do we sieve out those qualities that we wanna love or at least wat we wanna live for.. betol tak kengkawans?
love. unplanned.
serendipity.. which means fortunate discoveries by accident.. which turned out to be the most pleasant of things.. and lucky nuff, with all the restu.. goes off a long way.. in the world and thereafter. in Allah's Grace..
aamin!
we've heard that sometimes love happens on the first sight.
we also read about enemies who got hitched after the whole hullabaloo they've stirred up in their past.
some find those
NOT them. some find them after their mentors in life. some will not venture far nuff and would end up with someone just safe.
some makes mistakes in finding their mister and miss right.. but then again find their soulmate at another attempt in life.
we have our life's written in
Our Life's Book but we can always usaha and redha. plus a tinge of doas of course..
soulmates. who are our soulmates? what defines soulmates-hood?
soulmate. an informal noun which explains, "a person, esp. of the opposite sex, with whom one has a deeply personal relationship"
deeply personal relationship.. huge word rite?
actually i think its really simple.. if i've gotta chance upon simplifying it.. i would only say.. chemistry, with a whole of primary agents and secondary catalysts that binds us and our famous half together.
errms, did i simplify it or did i only complicate matters? hwahahaha
but i seriously think love can chance upon us at any time.. any minute.. any ol how.
so its mysterious laarh rasanyer..
it could be someone we grew up with. one who has seen our selekehness to the max.. time hingus ngah meleleh dengan
'trigger-happynyer'.adakalanya dia adalah jejaka/wanita misteri dalam mimpi kita.. relax. bukan wet mimpi.. mimpi ada makna punyer.. so its valid larrh kan, walaupun ia hanya permainan tidur.
sometimes its someone we bump into in the bus ke.. mrt ke.. yang accidentally terlaggar masa kita potek once upon a time dulu..
alaarh. byk laarh kan kalau nak list dwn the possibilities and coincidences
~penat nyah~so was it okay to have written, we chanced upon love? or love chances upon us?
haaah. ni laarh mak nak citer.. omygosh. i sound like a
bonafide nyah.. ~sorry nyah friends of mine.. aku cinta kamu sumer~love is a risk-taking effort? a gamble?
pssst. gamble tuh haram kan? then if its haram... how come we always say love's a gamble?
do we really wanna take a 'western' or an omputeh take on a blessed union of souls?
or should we stay put and rely on our islamic values which contains a union of two beings being part of iman and that it is one of the most regarded and respected move in life.
so takmo gamble2 aarrh. nanti kalah judi.. nyanyi lagu m daud kilau laarh plak..
tsk tsk tsk.
when we're humans.. we have senses. FIVE. the sense of sight. smell. touch. taste and hearing.
so when we choose love.. amcam confirm pakai all senses kan?
sight - we choose wat we want to see. everyone of us have our ideals. benda2 yang beri kita sense of pleasantness kat mata.. namun terus jatuh ehemms.. ehhks.. sabau.. orang baru nak kata jatuh ke hati.. relax.. relax.. takmo kanchiong.. this time i very sopan one ouhkay..
smell - we want them to smell like a bottle of polo ralph lauren or even davidoff coolwater? *pls fill in your own scent ________*
touch - we wanna feel the softness of their skin when we brush against their skins. okay. cukup2.. takmo ex-rated.
taste - ermms. benda ni sensitip sket.. okay2.. orang nak cakap pasal masakkan si wanitanyer.. to a man's heart is through his tummy... i think not only bakal2 pantin nak kena ambil kursus pernikahan.. i reckon that the ladies need to go for one more kursus.. kursus memasak. cooking lessons will help enhance a marriage, i so believe.. it creates chances of communication over a home cooked dinner.. i would love to whip up the whip!! ekkhs. salah tool.. i would wanna whip up his favourite dishes after some stressful day @ work..
hearing - who doesnt want to hear complimentary comments from their loved ones? so words of encouragement helps boosts the fire to any relationship.. quarrels and squabbles are inevitable.. BUT it could be engaged in a more peaceful manner. a soft whisper in the ear saying 'i love you' when you mean it.. or even 'i am sorry love' after a heated argument would help.. btol tak?
why do i love to write about L.O.V.E?
simple.. cos i'm yet to find it.. far from even finding the REAL McCoy.
so these are pointers for my own.. and i wanna keep this as a journal for my future hubbs's reading pleasure..
so that he would know that i'm someone who would have lurve him to the core even when he is as irritating as he could be..
okay laarh people.
time to poof off the office before it turns ghost town in sg.
see ya..
to my chinese friends and ex boyfriends.. xing nian kwai ler. wan shi ru yi..
