Dear lil bro.
of the topic you've asked me about.. lemme share and perhaps it would address the quandaries that you have..
i’ve always been a fan of your thoughts and ideas, despite you being younger than me… but you’re actually a deeper analyst than me. That one, I really take my hats off you.
U see, sometimes when we engage ourselves in deep thoughts/muhasabah.. its mainly a conscious effort to better ourselves and to rethink motive in living life.. some people would do it more frequent than others..
“People who fails to plan, plans to fail”
On that same benchmark, human beings who are given the honour of having brains and its masses are also given the opportunity to make better decisions their lives.
You’ve asked me why people think too deep and why some just dun?
It’s a choice, really. It’s the same scenario of having just butter on ya toast, when you can have peanut butter and a whole lot other..
A thought, complete with a way to achieve it.. is a virtue, at all levels.
In an industry, we have the Research and Development to innovate, the Sales and Marketing to market the products and the Post Sales to address the aftermath issues, rite? I
In the same context, our way of thinking should be of that level too.
We have to plan thoroughly, see to things properly and follow up with due diligence of any decisions that we take in life..
We are very lucky aint it? We have an opportunity to have the comfort of having a complete education and much more luxuries that we have as of now.. but some people, due to some constraints and all are not able to have those in their lives…
Of that cause, we would also better our life’s economy. We would get a better pay to maintain the family’s expenditure and all.. So our way of thinking helps us to path the routes that we take in life.. although its also a conscious effort to pray and supplicate to Allah for the better too. ~winks~
In the same line, we would need to look into our personal attributes too. We have to make sure we dun lose ourselves when we continue to achieve success in life. I’ve known of people who suddenly develop an
“attitude” after a lil ounce of rezqi befalling on their laps of comfort.
But thinking too deeply causes ta’aksub too.. You get too much into the thick of the matter and think that you’re superman or perhaps another recruit from the bunch of
HEROES that are already casted for.. that’s another problem..
HOUSTON.. we’ve got a problem!! ~nee nong.. nee nong~
So lil bro, in due diligence… we think whats within our circumference. And when doubts arises, go back to the Al Quran and sunnah or perhaps consult a person that is of a better position to advise.. And if we need further follow ups, we can try to isythikharah-ing. Perhaps, the route would be given to you in your thoughts and
May Allah grant you a smooth journey to achieve what you want in life..Warmly,
Your Not-So-Perfect Sister