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tales of the siblings

(Friday, July 20, 2007/5:47 PM)

assalammualaikkum

somehow or rather, i need to talk bout this topic. cos its been a long time i've kept things to myself...

you know some of us have siblings, some unfortunately do not..

and yeah, sibling rivalry occurs in phases and that its almost inevitable to avoid..

we are only humans.. we have feelings as individuals and for all things we feel affected if things dont go well amongst siblings..

my life story

i am the first girl in the family. and the first grandchild too. i've got 2 younger brothers, 25 and 20 years old respectively..

we're close knitted. we talk like friends. and that only when they're all grown up right now, there's some kinda detachment to emotions. all of them are striving for their own paths in life.. the youngest finishing up his 'national' duties and off he goes to finish up his studies.

Everything went well until Allah took our Momma away, for eternity. We lost her. Suddenly.

We're not even given enuff buffer to fall back on. A pillar was removed from our lives.

Lost as we may feel. We crawled back in life. Supported dad @ his shop to make ends meet. To support us through college and all.

Bros were Sec 2 and Primary 3 at that point of time and that we had to work things out at home. Chores were divided amongst all the four of us @ home and that we have to keep it all together.

All of us were brought up latchkey kids.. Our own set of independence.

The loss of our momma was not something that we loved to talk about.. It was like a missing piece of the puzzle. An empty slot in our hearts. Often I still have flashes of her reminding me some advices in life. Sometimes i wish that I could still see her greeting me @ my doorstep.

And so.. the 3 siblings survived.. We're each other support system.

We have open discussions with Daddy-O about things.

Yeah, sometimes siblings rivalry still happen. But its common aint it? So that as long as things do not go overboard with violence and all, its pretty okay. Yeah, the brothers do squabble and stuffs.. but they do not end up swearing each other away.

Yeah, point that i'm writing is this..

I found out that there are still some human beings who are too SELFISH to even have the desire to comfort their own sibling when they're down.

I found out that people do not do things unless it benefits their well being.

You know, these people are just plain pure jerks!

I do not know that its just plain pure immaturity or just nothing but being selfish!

Perhaps you can just really do me a fav. Stand in front of a mirror and look at yourself real hard!

Go ask yourself these set of questions.

For all those things that you have right now, dont you think you should even thank your sibling for it?

For those sad moment of yours, have you ever saw your sibling leave you in a lurch?

For those happy moments, find out who hugged you in pride and say, well done?

Sometimes, people just forget.. Perhaps i am writing this to remind you?

You know.. You treat other people like your own sibling BUT you forgot who's your own?

With this, I would really love you to sit down and think about things... To realise your selfishness this far and change for the better.

Sometimes.. human just forget. or perhaps they're just born very selfish?

Remember, the world DOES NOT revolve around you.. Grow up!

You can continue to make faces and show me the attitude.. O'well. do you ever want to find out mine? I would be interested to share with you ya know.. ~inquisitive~

Until you decide to grow up... you shall not be dealt with.. So.. HURRY!

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